About

Stop dating and start courting

The majority of dating website and the latest dating apps are primarily sexually driven/motivated.  At ValueMeDating, we are NOT your traditional dating site. Our intention is to bring back an old fashioned (some might say unfashionable) concept of dating. We believe we have an updated version of traditional dating applicable for the 21st century. Centred, around values, principle and character.

A lot of people on dating websites forget they are actually looking for a real genuine relationship and often devalue themselves whilst attempting to find a partner. Also, to find that special relationship you need to be looking in an environment appropriate to you.

So what is courting?

Courting or courtship is the period of development towards an intimate relationship wherein a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement. The definition of courting is the process of trying to attract and woo a romantic partner to create a long-term relationship or to marry the partner. In this day and age courting may seem a bit extreme but courting represents a set of values, principles and a commitment that should be recognisable and evident from the get-go.

Because the world is moving at such a pace, we believe many couples miss out the crucial stages of courting. The fun “getting to know you” part is often now reduced to weeks, days and in some extreme cases just a few hours. If you find you partner this way great, however evidence suggests these relationships don’t last but the misery left behind does.

Many of us are so concerned with getting a date that we forget creating a connection and falling in love is the ultimate goal in dating. If you are fed-up hearing the same old lines or continually meeting the wrong types, our brand-new website is specifically for you.

If you want a long, happy, lasting relationship, finding you next partner cannot be rushed. It shouldn’t be rushed. If fact, you should take as much time getting to know somebody as possible.  If you are feeling pressured in anyway then this is not the person for you. Remember, not just anyone is entitled to your love and affections. Look for a partner that shares your principles, values and is of good character.

You deserve the best so don’t settle for anything less.